Where Are All the Women in Apologetics?

Where Are All the Women in Apologetics?

“Where are all the women in apologetics?”

Women gathered at the WIA conference in La Mirada, CA in January 2018

Over the last decade, I’ve been asked this question many times. Typically, the question arose because someone in the audience noticed that I was the only female speaker at that particular apologetics conference. I would assure the questioner that other women speakers existed in apologetics and I would begin to rattle off a list of names, including my colleagues at Houston Baptist University. I would then follow up with, “You’ll see, the women are there.”

Mary Jo speaking on how to respond to the intolerance of the new tolerance at the WIA conference in La Mirada, CA in January. (Taken from WIA’s Facebook page).

Back in 2014, when Christianity Today ran the cover story, “The Unexpected Defenders,” about the women in apologetics, I began to realize that women in the field of apologetics just aren’t as well known. My understanding was confirmed over and over from experiences with female audience members who are searching for female apologist role models. It took awhile for this one fact to sink in: women are encouraged to engage in the life of the mind when they see other women doing so. And that is one reason why I’m grateful for the organization, Women in Apologetics.

Women in Apologetics is an organization dedicated to the promotion of female apologists across the world. According to their website, WIA’s “focus is to equip, encourage, and educate women in Christian apologetics.” They have “a passion for encouraging and equipping other women in the church who are interested in learning how to think more deeply and intelligently about their faith.” WIA just sponsored their first “Love God With All Your Mind” Apologetics conference that was fully staffed by female apologists.

Some of the speakers at the WIA conference, plus Apologist Craig Hazen. Photo credit: Hillary Morgan Ferrer

In talking with some of the attendees, I heard story after story about how excited they were for this conference and how important it was to their lives! One woman told me she had taken my bible study, “Why Do You Believe That?” and became extremely interested in apologetics. When she saw this event advertised, she immediately booked her flight from Nashville to Los Angeles. She told me that this unique conference was so uplifting because of the worship, fellowship, and intellectual inquiry with a group of women.

If you’ve ever wondered “where are all the female apologists?” I recommend beginning with a look at the Women in Apologetics website!

Also, check out the WIA facebook page.

Goodbye for Now, Dear Friend

Goodbye for Now, Dear Friend

I don’t know how to say goodbye to Nabeel. He was such a dynamic force in my life and in the life of my ministry. He and David Wood were there at the very start of my ministry, bringing Confident Christianity alongside Acts 17 on debates and adventures. Oh, and the adventures we have had together! 

For me, it was all so odd…for I never intended to have a ministry. Yet there was Nabeel with an unquenchable passion to minister. I felt like a Jonah hanging out with a Paul. He was always challenging me to go beyond what I thought I could do. For instance, he was the one who penned the public challenge for me to do my first debate! No doubt both he and David had already discussed the plans. Last year, I mentioned to him that he and David were responsible for the fact that I had any debates at all. He smiled, laughed, and said, “Oh yeah, I guess we did do that, huh?”

David and Nabeel were also responsible for my engagement with ETS-EPS. Nabeel told me that I “had to go” back in 2006; like there was no option. When I got there, they threw me into conversations with scholars I had revered from afar, but was mortified to speak with in person. Most of the time, I tried to just listen, but they would never leave my opinion out of the conversation.

Over the years, we’ve all followed different paths in ministry, but Nabeel’s recent diagnosis brought us back together. In November, Nabeel suggested we do a road trip to the ETS-EPS conference, just he and David and I…one last adventure for the old times. So he drove us out to San Antonio while David set up the cameras all over the car so we could answer questions about Islam during the trip. It was such a joy to watch these two interact again and to jump in on the fun. From watching Nabeel, you’d never know that he was receiving cancer treatment. He was every bit as vigorous as always.

Throughout 2017, Nabeel spoke, taught classes, and preached right up until his hospitalization. I remember speaking with him at church about how he couldn’t do ministry like he wanted to do anymore. Other than the possibility of not being around for his family, it was one of the main things that really upset him about cancer. He wanted to minister to people. It is what he loved to do.

Throughout his hospitalization, my family and I visited him as frequently as we could do so. Over the weeks I saw him, he always had something to laugh about. Even the last time I saw him before Hurricane Harvey hit, he asked how I was doing. I told him I had just endured a five-hour faculty meeting and so I didn’t know who had the worse end of the deal, him or me, and he said, “You definitely have the worse end.” He loved to joke and tease.

Today is the day after his funeral. My tears yesterday said I will never be the same again. My heart today says that I will endure through the change. For I have reason to believe that my Lord knows what He is doing even when my heart does not understand. God has shown me that He is trustworthy. When I would pray with Nabeel, I would say, “I trust God with you.” I meant what I said.

So I will learn to live with a goodbye for now, dear friend. For you live on here and now with all the lives you have touched. I know that your influence on my ministry was a tiny tip of an iceberg of lives you affected. I thank God for your time here with us! I will high five, fist bump, and hug you in Heaven one day…and we will laugh together once more.

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Don’t Waste the Storm

Don’t Waste the Storm

“As we rebuild our city, let us not rebuild the walls that Hurricane Harvey tore down.” – Words from my pastor

Over the past few weeks in southeast Texas, we have endured flooding and catastrophe. We’ve seen the heavens open up and relentlessly saturate our cities. There’s been no rainfall event its equal in the recorded continental U.S. history. The hurricane stalled so long over Houston, one meteorologist described the hurricane as pulling up its own flood waters to dump them back down again. After the storm finally left, we saw devastation everywhere. And we are still flooded in some places.

Just days ago, Hurricane Irma ravaged islands in the Caribbean and continued on a path that devastated the Florida Keys and brought significant flooding and destruction to other large areas of Florida as well. Plus, the Pacific Northwest and parts of California are currently aflame in huge forest fires, some with zero percent containment, threatening lives and filling the air with thick smoke.

So allow me to say again, ““As we rebuild our city, let us not rebuild the walls that ___________ tore down.”

In the midst of calamity, we have risen and will rise above our dividing lines. I’ve heard many words of hope come out of the disaster in Texas. I began to feel a sense of brotherhood with my fellow mankind…a sense of true community based in love for one another. Yet, a gnawing remembrance has already begun to chip away at my hope: these words of love and grace are so easily dismissed once there is recovery. We quickly return to agendas that divide us and to the polarizing language that destroys us. With the Texas flooding, the return began even before the rains ceased.

The kind of love that reaches across division seems to be an unnatural love for us humans. It is the kind of love of which Jesus spoke in the Sermon on the Mount when he taught us to love our enemies and do good to those who do not do good to us. He told us that whatever we would have done to us is what we should do for others. (Luke 6:27-31) This practice does not come about easily. I know that there are everyday occurrences of such great love, but on a larger scale, such as a city, it took disaster to see this love demonstrated across all lines.

So my question is: How do we hold onto such great love for each other? Or will we just slip back into our old habits and ways of thinking once we have recovered? “A fool wastes the pain of suffering and goes right back to his former ways, learning nothing”…more words from my pastor. We’ve had a glimpse of what it looks like to live in love and goodness, but the truth of man’s nature is that he will do what is not good. He will return to his former ways. (Psalm 14:3, Romans 3:12) I’ve already seen people using the hurricane as a platform for their own agendas and political statements. The great good of our love for one another already being warped and spoiled for personal and political gain.

This is why we humans need a Savior. We need One who truly knows goodness and love because He is Goodness and Love. We need One who will not spoil any situation, but rather redeem it. We need a reason to love, a reason to hope, a reason to change our ways. We need the goodness of God.

We love because He first loved us. 1 John 4:19

For some quick ways to dive in deeper on God’s goodness:

How Good is Good Enough for God” Jonty Allcock (20 min.)
Do We Need God in the Good Times?” John Lennox (1 hour)
The Problem of Suffering and the Goodness of God”  Ravi Zacharias (2 hours)
Mary Jo Featured on Apologetics Academy Webinar

Mary Jo Featured on Apologetics Academy Webinar

Mary Jo recently had the privilege of being a featured guest on Jonathan McLatchie’s Apologetics Academy webinar.

She discussed Conversational Apologetics, which focuses on four elements of good dialogue; including how to use common questions to uncover what people really believe and to spark a deeper discussion on belief in God.

Check out the two-hour long webinar below and let us know your thoughts!

 

Mary Jo to be Featured on Iron Sharpens Iron Radio Program

Mary Jo to be Featured on Iron Sharpens Iron Radio Program

Tomorrow (Thursday, April 13th, 2017) Mary Jo will be a guest on the Iron Sharpens Iron radio program with Chris Arnzen. The show will be live from 4:00-6:00 p.m. EST.

The first hour she will be discussing her personal testimony of abandoning atheism and embracing Jesus Christ and His Gospel, and the second hour she will talk about apologetics in women’s ministry.

If you can’t tune in live, we will post the link to the program after it airs!

Consider Summit Ministries This Summer

Consider Summit Ministries This Summer

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Now is the time to invest in preparing mature, thoughtful, and focused young leaders. I think Summit is key. That’s why I’m honored to be on their Board of Reference.

Find out more and register your young leader by 5pm MTN on March 31st to receive early-bird discount of $200 off.  Receive an additional $200 off their conferences in California and Tennessee! www.summit.org/student

Responding: When People Call You Judgmental

Responding: When People Call You Judgmental

How do you respond when people call you judgmental?

I first ask, “What do you mean by that?” I want to discover how the person understands his or her own use of the term “judgmental.” I also want to know what they found to be a “judgmental” statement on my behalf.

In the logic course I teach at Houston Baptist University, our text is broken up into the three acts of the mind: understanding, judgment and reasoning. Notice the second act of the mind, judgment. A judgment is when we put two concepts in relation to one another. Typically a judgment is a declarative sentence. For example, “The professor’s 10:30 a.m. logic class is the class with the highest grade average of all the professor’s classes.” This declarative sentence has told the reader something about the professor’s 10:30 a.m. logic class. A judgment has been made in this statement. Does that make the author of the statement a judgmental person? No.

While a person may find my above example tedious, if not out right boring, it has immense value in today’s marketplace of ideas. Human beings are the kind of things that make judgments. We do it all the time. A judgment happens whenever we make a declarative statement. So in some sense, we are actually all judgmental people (which relates to one of the definitions of “judgmental”). Making judgments does not equal being judgmental…even when discussing a hot topic issue. Continue reading “Responding: When People Call You Judgmental”

How C.S. Lewis Wrecked My American Christmas

How C.S. Lewis Wrecked My American Christmas

I grew up dreaming of a white Christmas with Bing Crosby and Rosemary Clooney. Christmas was about red, green and white. It was about lights on houses, displays in stores and snowy weather. Christmas was a time of stressful hurrying about to make the desserts, see the family, give to charity, wrap up school work, find the perfect presents and watch that newest movie on which I waited all year. It was about parties and friends and church musicals. Oh…and it was also about Jesus. As the slogan reminds me, “Jesus is the reason for the season.” Of course “Jesus is the reason,” but there were also so many expectations this time of year. Specifically, and prominently, there were my expectations of the holidays. All of these things seem to stem from traditions to which I have clung from childhood to the present. I wanted to feel a certain way, and I was going to pursue that feeling at all costs.

Yet something unexpected happened this holiday season. I finished reading The Space Trilogy by C.S. Lewis and his writing interrupted my entire holiday mindset. What did he do? Let me share three ways Lewis wrecked my American Christmas.

1) Lewis made me aware that what I thought I had to do, or had to have, during the holidays was all a pretense; traditions taking the place of real contentment and joy.

Traditions, in of themselves, are not inherently bad, but I hadn’t realized how much I was clinging to American Christmas ideology and visions for my happiness[1] at this time of year. All of these traditions should serve as signposts pointing toward the source of the traditions. Instead, the signposts have been replacing the source of joy. Lewis’ writing helped me to reflect upon my abuse of the traditions in the place of the source. He helped me to understand my humanity in a fallen world. From what or whom, exactly, do humans derive their contentedness? Where can I find real joy? Would I even recognize real joy? Even the human vision of what is beautiful and good has become distorted. Christmas should be a reminder of the pure goodness, beauty and joy found in the nature of God; a momentary vision of restoration.

2) Lewis made me long for an advent that was deeper and more mysterious than my wish to have family, quiet and the perfect gifts.

Every year, I seem to slam into the holidays with my head spinning. I rarely get a moment to process the meaning of Christmas, of the Incarnation of God. This time of year is the time to pull back the curtain of American culture—the heavy veil of individualistic desire—and to gaze upon the real story, salvation history. What was God doing so many years ago? Why did He send the second person of the Trinity as incarnate on earth? How does this act make a difference in my life? Where do I fit into the story of God’s redemption on earth? What does His gift mean for those around me? These are the questions of the Christmas mystery. God gave us the perfect gift of Himself, in a way that we didn’t expect. Nothing else I can procure or produce at Christmastime comes close to the vision of God’s act of beauty and goodness: His gift of peace on earth and His goodwill towards men.

3) Lewis gave me a sense of longing for another world of which I’ve never felt before. Everything else fades before the desire welling up in me for the goodness of His presence.

While I won’t trash all my American Christmas traditions, I will definitely enter into the season with a bit more caution for how I view and participate in those traditions. If I must have anything other than the beauty and wonder of the Lord Jesus in order to fulfill my heart at this time of year (that pumpkin spice latte, family gathering, or pristinely decorated tree), I have made that thing an idol; no matter how innocuous the thing appears.

So perhaps Lewis didn’t wreck my American Christmas but rather salvaged it by reminding me of the source of joy. Therefore, I’ll sing those holiday songs, decorate with red, white, and green, grab that perfect gift for someone I love…and do all things as a reflection of the goodness of God’s redemptive act in human history. Let the love that God has for you affect all those around you. Be reminded that God came into darkness as glorious light. He broke into our kingdom with his own kingdom. This season we celebrate the goodness of God. We celebrate His love of the creation.

[1] Not to mention the problem of seeking happiness, which itself comes with so much cultural baggage.

2016 Confident Christianity Ministry Recap

2016 Confident Christianity Ministry Recap

As 2016 comes to a close, we’re reflecting on all the ministry opportunities Confident Christianity had this year.

We began the year with Mary Jo teaching a logic fast term class at Houston Baptist University. It was in that class that one of her students came up to her after the first day and said thank you for talking with him about his Islamic faith and his view of God. He had left Islam and become a Christian. He said he was now attending a local church.

MJ then took two trips out to California. One of those trips was for a conference sponsored by the Christian Apologetics Ministry, Reasons to Believe. At the conference, there was a wide array of apologetics topics from how to have good conversation to science and faith to MJ’s topic on the problem of evil.

In March, MJ and Roger went up to Canada for the “Faith Beyond Belief” conference. MJ spoke at the conference, at a Bible college, at a private Christian school, and on a Canadian television program.

Throughout the spring, CC was ministering in Oklahoma, Tennessee and Texas. In the summer, MJ took two trips out to Colorado for Summit Ministries Worldview Camps and for a newer apologetics event in Manitou Springs called “Every Thought Captive.” At this event, she met a Sufi Muslim who came to hear her speak on Islam! She was also able to do some speaking in Sunday School classes at her home church on the subject of Islam.

When fall rolled around, MJ and Roger went back up to Canada for an event with Ravi Zacharias and Andy Bannister. The three apologists spoke in Vancouver and Victoria, with Andy and MJ speaking in Comox, as well. We had great turn-outs for each event and fielded a lot of one-on-one questions. We also had a special event to minister to local pastors in the Victoria area (Andy Bannister spoke). It was a special time of encouraging one another in ministry.

As the year wrapped up, MJ spoke in California once again, Georgia, and Nashville at the LifeWay Women’s Leadership Forum. She also attended the Evangelical Theological Society conference finishing her three-year stint as the first woman to serve on the Executive Committee of the Evangelical Philosophical Society (an organization established in 1974). MJ has also been teaching an online course with Houston Baptist University which will end in mid-December.

There are so many good things going on with Confident Christianity! We are planning much more for 2017 so stay tuned. If you’d like to invite Mary Jo to speak at an event, click here.